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Your Complete Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex

14. GETTING THE TIP IN HURTS THE MOST, BECAUSE THE HEAD OF THE PENIS IS THE WIDEST PART.

Despite what you might see or hear in pop culture, anal sex isn’t really a sex act that can just happen without lots o’ lube and prep work beforehand. While yes, the ol’ “sorry I slipped and almost went into the wrong hole” happens sometimes, it’s unlikely that without a fuck ton of lube, your dude won’t be able to actually penetrate you all the way in your ass willy-nilly.

If you’re willing to put in some prep work and do your research, anal sex has the possibility of being a super pleasurable act that, who knows, might even become your favorite.

Anal sex requires a bit of extra preparation, but other than that, it’s just another sex act. Whether you are still debating getting in line for this particular roller coaster or already lurching up the steep hill, here’s everything you need to know about anal sex.

1. IF YOU HAVEN’T ALREADY TRIED DIPPING INTO ANAL TRAINING, TRY THAT FIRST. YOUR MUSCLES PROBS NEED IT!
As the saying goes, “Don’t go from 0 to 60 without anal training first,” (just kidding, this isn’t actually a saying, but it should be). Going from having nothing up your ass ever to suddenly a whole penis can be jarring (in many ways). You can make it easier for yourself by anal training or gradually introducing larger and larger toys into your anus to “train” your muscles to get used to it.

2. GET YOUR SPACE READY.
The rumors are true: Anal does have the possibility of getting messy. Like anything sex related, when you’re swapping bodily fluids, unwrapping condoms, using lube, there’s the potential to stain or make a mess. If you want extra peace of mind, make sure the surface you and your partner engage on is comfortable and washable. “That way, you can focus completely on creating a memorable experience for yourself,” says Danyell Fima, cofounder of Velvet Co.

3. STAY AWAY FROM NUMBING CREAMS.
Sure, the idea of a numbing cream that protects you from feeling any potential pain during anal is nice, but the risk for injury down the line is not worth it. “Avoid numbing creams. I know they are tempting, but pain is your body’s way of letting you know something is wrong,” says sex educator Wendasha Jenkins Hall, PhD. “If your anus is numb, you can’t tell if any of your activities are causing damage. You can’t feel if you need more lube or if your body is tightening up to the penetration or impact.”

4. TRY IT SOLO FIRST.
Take any pressure to perform off yourself by trying penetrative anal sex alone first. Get a toy and a condom (for easier cleanup) and go at your own pace. “Solo anal play allows your body’s sensations and responses to flow more freely, helping you gain a much better understanding of what feels good and what doesn’t, which you can then share with a partner before you try anal sex together,” explains Jess O’ Reilly, resident sexologist at Astroglide.

5. DON’T TRY IT IF YOU DON’T WANT TO.
There’s a big difference between “I don’t necessarily fantasize about getting a penis enema but I want to blow my partner’s mind” and “I would rather die than do this but I guess I can suffer through it because he’s been pressuring me.” If you’re in a mutually caring, healthy relationship (with a guy who goes down on you for half an hour, minimum), maybe you’ll want to do it for your partner or you won’t. Either way is a hundred percent fine, and if he keeps pressuring you when you have made it clear that it is not on the table, tell him to suck it.

6. TRY OUT NON-PENETRATIVE ANAL PLAY FIRST.
Before embarking on the full monte of penetrative anal sex, you can—and should!—give lighter anal play a try. This is open to interpretation and could mean anything from toys to fingers or mouths. It’ll give you a lower-pressure idea of what the ~sensations~ of anal stimulation feel like and is a way of working up to the big show. Or not! If you decide some light anal play is all you’re interested in, camp out there forever. No rules here, except to use lube, have consent, and USE LUBE.

7. IF IT HURTS, STOP!
Some, well, let’s call them new sensations are to be expected—a lot of women say it feels like they need to poop or like a primal, pressure feeling. But like any other sex act, if things start to hurt in a way that’s no longer fun, you should stop. Injuries from anal sex are possible but super rare. Pain most commonly comes from anal fissures, or little tears in the tissue around the anus, which is very thin and delicate. A good way to remedy that is using lots of lube and smarting with smaller objects, rather than big ones.

8. YOU MIGHT BLEED A LITTLE.
As always, if you’re bleeding profusely or persistently (like for longer than an hour), you should call a doctor. But a little blood during anal play or sex isn’t abnormal. Partha Nandi, MD, a gastroenterologist and health editor with WXYZ-TV in Detroit, tells Cosmopolitan.com the most common reason for bleeding after anal sex is anal tears—small tears or fissures in the delicate anal canal tissue. Before you freak out at the thought of “anal tears,” know that most of these are so tiny you won’t even feel them, and a lot of them don’t produce any blood at all. But, like snowflakes, no two anal tears are the same, so yours may bleed a bit. These little guys should heal within a few days but may cause a bit of mild discomfort when you’re pooping.

Another really common cause is a hemorrhoid (yup, we’re talkin’ hemorrhoids, folks) you didn’t know about. This is a bit more alarming, because a hemorrhoid holds a bunch of blood inside. You’ll probably feel some level of discomfort or pain if you have a hemorrhoid, and if it bursts, you’ll definitely see some bleeding that should totally subside within a few days.

9. YOU’RE GONNA WANNA BE VOCAL DURING THIS PROCESS.
Even if you’re normally very quiet during sex, this is a time you’ll wanna speak up—especially your first time trying it out with a new partner. Tell them if they’re going too fast (or too slow—see point 10 below), if you feel like you’re literally about to poop everywhere or if you’re experiencing pain/discomfort. Also, tell them if it feels good! If you’re feeling nervous, chances are your partner is too. Positive feedback—we love it!

10. THROW OTHER STIMULATION INTO THE MIX.
Listen, they don’t make those wild-looking, three-pronged sex toys for nothing. Once you’re in the groove of things, add in some clit stimulation, some vaginal stimulation, or heck, all three. Some women say this combo feels overstimulating in the best way. In any case, most women need some combination of stimulation to orgasm—whether that’s clit/vaginal, or anal/clit+vaginal is totally subjective. But isn’t it fun to learn new things about your own orgasms?

11. EVEN IF YOU’RE MONOGAMOUS, A CONDOM IS PROBABLY A GOOD IDEA.
It prevents bacteria from the bowels spreading anywhere. (I know, you really wanna fuck now.) Sexpert Emily Morse advises keeping baby wipes on the nightstand and to “never use the same condom going from vaginal to anal and back again.” For obvious reasons/poopy vagina.

12. THE RIGHT LUBE IS TWICE AS IMPORTANT AS IT IS WHEN HAVING VAGINAL SEX, WHICH IS ALREADY SUPER IMPORTANT.
You might have heard that too much lube takes away the friction that makes it feel good for the dude. That’s bullshit. There is no such thing as too much lube, because it makes it feel slightly less like you are using your butthole as a handbag for a flashlight.

13. BETWEEN THIN WATER-BASED LUBES AND THICKER ONES, GO WITH THE THICKER ONES, BECAUSE THEY DON’T DRY OUT AS QUICKLY.
In sex educator Tristan Taormino’s crazy-helpful Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, she mentions that Crisco has been a favorite of the LGBTQ+ community for a long time, but it’s bad to use with condoms because it can eventually poke tiny holes in the latex.

The oil-based ones are also pretty annoying to get off afterward. We used Vaseline, but my boyfriend later realized that it deadens sensation on the skin, which was obviously helpful for my asshole but bad for his orgasm. So maybe don’t do that or start with a bit of that but then switch, because it’ll take really long for your partner to come, if they even can.

14. GETTING THE TIP IN HURTS THE MOST, BECAUSE THE HEAD OF THE PENIS IS THE WIDEST PART.
Once you’re past that and up to the shaft, it’ll feel a little better. Remember how much regular sex hurt at first for some of us? (Unless I guess the guy’s shaft is the same width as his head, in which case are you guys gonna break up when he has to go back to Xavier’s Academy for Gifted Youngsters?)

15. RELAX YOUR PC MUSCLES AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.
Relaxing and constricting the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles is like the anal version of doing Kegels. You can worry about that later on—right now just let your butthole muscles go, like you’re about to poop (you won’t, probably).

16. YOU’RE GOING TO FREAK THE FUCK OUT THAT YOU’RE POOPING BUT YOU’RE NOT.
Honestly, it becomes hard to tell if you are or aren’t; additionally, this Tucker Max story was not helpful for my butt-sex phobia. You’re probably not gonna poop. If there’s a little bit of poop, as my partner said, it’s not a big deal, because “[he] asked for this.” (There wasn’t.)

17. YOU CAN LIE FLAT ON YOUR STOMACH, GET IN DOGGY-STYLE, OR DO MISSIONARY—AND THAT IS THE ORDER OF WHAT WILL HURT THE LEAST TO THE MOST.
At least, in my (minimal) experience. You can tear your anus if you use a certain position that allows for more penetration before you’re ready, and Taormino points out that the missionary position allows for the least clitoral stimulation and suggests receiver-on-top for beginners. “Insertive partners who are inexperienced, nervous about how to penetrate their partners anally, or fearful of hurting their partners may find this position most relaxing because the receiver can do much of the decision-making and work.”

Don’t worry about disappointing him by wanting to go slow and gently. You’re not being a buzzkill who’s squashing his porn-influenced fantasies of pounding the shit out of a girl’s butt. You are being an awesome and selfless (if butt sex is not on your list of must-have sex) partner.

18. LIKE PEEING IMMEDIATELY AFTER SEX TO AVOID A UTI, IT’S GOOD TO GO TO THE BATHROOM RIGHT AFTER YOU’RE DONE.
You’ll also probably feel like you have to anyway. You have also opened yourself up to the joy of butt queefs. They’re not farts, no matter what anyone says. Unlike frontal queefs, they might go on for a few hours as the air escapes. On the bright side, you are a human beatbox, and your partner can lay a sick freestyle over the top if s/he feels so inclined.

19. IF YOU DESPISE IT, NEVER DO IT AGAIN.
It shouldn’t take you a few hellish rounds to finally decide it’s not for you. If you hate it, you hate it, and that is fine. I didn’t hate it, and it was psychologically gratifying to watch my partner’s mind being blown. I’d do it again as a “special occasion” thing, like on our anniversary…or Flag Day.

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How to Prepare for Anal Sex, According to Experts

What do Lady Gaga, platform sneakers, and anal sex have in common? They’re all having a moment.

This morning, in the span of one hour, Truffle Butter played at my fave coffee shop (if you don’t know what that has to do with anal, two words: Urban Dictionary), an email about the launch of a new butt plug popped into my inbox, and my pal texted to ask which position—missionary or doggy—was a better position for first-time anal sex.

Still, the sex act we’re all intrigued by—and in some cases trying—is still shrouded in mystery. And, to be fair, it can be kind of intimidating. So, we tapped some sexperts to bring you a first-time anal sex how-to guide. To replace some of that confusion with clarity, read on for tips and tricks on how to prepare for anal sex that will make it as pleasurable, safe, clean, and orgasmic as possible.

1. Talk about it.

Sorry, folks, but you can’t introduce the tush without some chit-chat. For one, if you and your boo can’t talk about butt stuff, you’re probably not ready to do said butt stuff. Second, it will help make the actual act more comfortable and enjoyable for you both.

Everyone has a butt and anal sex can mean a lot of things, so, first, you’re going to want to decide what exactly is going down, says Amy Boyajian, co-founder and CEO of Wild Flower, an innovative online sexual wellness store. “Is penetration happening? Are toys going to be involved? Are there some things you don’t want to do? Are there other things you really want to try? What can be added—butt plugs, lube, condoms—to make your experience more comfortable?”

BTW, like all sex, anal sex is better when accompanied with foreplay. So, next, discuss what gets you both turned on, suggests Boyajian.

2. Experiment on your own.

“Before you even consider putting something in someone else’s butt, be sure to explore your own butt,” says Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D., a sexologist and host of the podcast Sex With Dr. Jess. “If you’re not comfortable putting a finger in your own butt or exploring with a toy you are not prepared to penetrate another person’s butt, and vice-versa.”

Making your rear part of your masturbation session(s) will not only boost your confidence and comfort with anal play, but it’ll also help you learn your peach from a new ~dimension~. One good approach: Start with your go-to solo-sex moves. Then, lube up a fingertip and experiment with touch. “The chemical shifts that take place during arousal can help these muscles relax so that you can slide a finger inside,” says O’Reilly.

If you’ve never touched an anus before, it may feel foreign. Here’s what to expect: “You’ll feel two muscles contract around your finger: the external sphincter which you can contract and release at will, and the internal sphincter, which is an involuntary muscle, meaning it’s controlled by the autonomic nervous system,” says O’Reilly.

“Then, practice squeezing the external sphincter around your finger and allow it to release (like you’re pushing something out of your butt),” she says. When you’re comfortable, you can slide the finger little farther to feel the internal sphincter. Then, practice breathing slowly; you should feel it release slightly.

3. Clean up.

This is probably one of the first things you wondered about how to prepare for anal sex. FYI, poop is “stored” in the upper bowels—not the anal canal (aka far enough in that no penis is big enough to reach it). So the fear of poop droplets and fecal residue are a bit unfounded. “If you’re having regular and routine bowel movements, you should be more than in the clear,” says Evan Goldstein, M.D., CEO, and founder of Bespoke Surgical which specializes in helping men and women of all sexualities with anal play.

Still, “if you can, go to the bathroom 30 to 60 minutes before anal play, do,” says Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator & CEO of b-Vibe, an anal play product company. And a good shower also never hurts. “Washing off before anal sex can help make you feel clean and therefore more comfortable and sexy,” she says.

But if there’s no time to shower, an unscented baby wipe can do wonders, she says. Just don’t use this as a time to introduce new or different products or fragrances to your nether-bits, which could lead to irritation.

Ultimately, your primary goal here is to wash away any evidence of a bad wipe job (*shrug emoji*), and to make yourself feel clean so that you can enter the encounter with all the confidence of Gaga doing camp.

4. Maybe use an enema.

Turns out, an enema (the introducing liquid through the anus and into the large intestine to clear the bowels) is absolutely *not* a must to prepare for anal sex, says Sinclair. “But if you want to take extra precautions beyond a baby wipe or soap and water—which are definitely sufficient—you can use an enema for a deeper, more comprehensive clean.”

You can buy a disposable enema kit (sometimes called a “hot water bottle and syringe kit”) at your local pharmacy which will include a hot water bottle, a hose, a plug, and a rectal tip. Most disposable kits come with a laxative or saline solution; dump this out (it’s not necessary) and then rinse the bottle. About an hour before play, lubricate the tip (~foreshadowing~), either sit on the toilet or tub, insert the nozzle into your bum, and then squeeze the water into the hole. “Hold the water for 10 to 15 seconds, then expel it into the toilet. Repeat this until all the water being released is clear,” says Sinclair.

5. Stock up on lube.

Lube, lube, lube. Once more for the folks in the back: LUBE. This is non-negotiable. “Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating,” says Boyajian.

There a few considerations to keep in mind when making your lube purchase: “Water-based lubes are compatible with silicone toys and are easy to clean off sheets and clothes. Silicone lube has more of silky feeling and lasts longer, but can’t be used on silicone toys.” And remember: While oil-based lubes can be a great sexual lubricant, most oils are not compatible with latex condoms and barriers because they’ll break down the latex.

You might be tempted to add a numbing lube or cream to the mix. Please don’t, say the experts. “By temporarily numbing your butt (and by extension, your partner’s genitals during anal intercourse), you are not only less likely to stop if you experience a small tear and more likely to experience pain once the cream’s effects wear off,” says O’Reilly.

6. Don’t forget steps 1, 2, and 3.

So you and your partner have consensually agreed that tonight’s the night for anal sex. That isn’t a green light to pass “Go” and collect $200. Just as you warmed your bod up during your solo anal exploration, you want to be warmed up to prepare for anal sex too.

“Get yourself riled up using the techniques you normally use,” says O’Reilly. “Better yet, have an orgasm first…Your body is most responsive to pleasure and primed for arousal when your endorphin and oxytocin levels are elevated post-orgasm.”

7. Try rimming.

Oral-anal play has many names: Rimming, analingus, tossing the salad, to name a few. Whatever you call it, Dr. Goldstein is for it. “I highly recommend rimming for those about to engage in anal sex, as it will help get you relaxed and ready to receive!” he says. “It’s amazing what a little tongue action can do. It can help put the receiver’s mind at ease while warming them up to relax their sphincters.”

Still, there’s an undeniable…intimacy…of having someone’s tongue doing swirlies in and around your backdoor, so make sure you and your partner are on the same page before introducing tongue to the action.

8. Use toys to prepare for anal sex.

If you remember any single thing from this guide, make it this: Never insert anything into your butt that doesn’t have a flared base. Unlike the vagina, which comes to a full stop (hi, cervix), the rectum keeps going into the abyss of your GI tract. A flared base will keep any toy firmly rooted on the outside of your bod.

Once you have a trusty toy, use some lube, start slow, and insert the plug into your rear bit by (little) bit. “As the toy is being inserted, try to consciously relax to accommodate it. Then, have your partner remove it. Re-lube it, then insert again, suggests Dr. Goldstein. Repeat this technique of slow-in, slow-out five or six times, or until you can completely insert the toy.

If it feels good and comfortable, continue. “If it’s too much, it’s okay to end that session and then try again another day,” says Dr. Goldstein. “I instruct most of my clients to use a small plug for two weeks, then both a small and medium plug for the following two weeks, and then finally a large plug for two weeks.” Basically, going from zero to hero (err, penis or dildo) in one night is asking a lot of your anal sphincters.

Why does it take so long? Because your anal sphincters are a muscle, like your biceps. Exercising them increases your ability to flex and relax them on command. “Remember, since your anus is always in contraction mode, deliberate muscle relaxation is key for getting it into tip-top shape, and that takes exercise and practice,” says Dr. Goldstein.

9. Or a finger.

If you don’t have a toy on hand (heh), anal fingering is a good option. This will help your partner learn how your anus works, anatomically. “The nice thing about finger dilation is that your partner can massage the muscles in the anus to get them to fully relax, which should lead to the most pleasurable engagement,” explains Dr. Goldstein.

Generally, one finger is more than enough. “Just do what feels right and always be aware of your limitations. There are no awards given to whoever can get the most fingers inside!”

Dr. Goldstein notes that “long or jagged fingernails can lead to localized injury.” He suggests trimming and filing your nails so that there are no sharp edges or hangnails. Yikes. (Same goes for vaginal penetration, ICYDK.)

10. Now, onto the P- or D-in-B anal sex.

You feel it, you like it, you want it? You got it. If you and your partner have comfortably prepared for anal sex this far, pat yourself on the back (butt), grab the lube and get at it—slowly. There are lots of great positions, but for your first-time, doggy style, missionary (and lifted missionary), and spooning are best.

“Practice breathing deeply as your partner inserts a quarter-inch at a time,” suggests O’Reilly. “As the depth increases, practice mindfulness by tuning into your breath. You’ll likely find that your muscles relax as your heart rate slows.”

As your partner is filling you, play with other parts of your body that bring you pleasure at the same time, she suggests. “You might use your hand to rub yourself or use a powerful vibrator against your clit to ensure that you enjoy the entire experience.” (Like you needed convincing.)

Your partner may also lend a helping hand. But heads up: If your partner was using their fingers in your butt, they absolutely must wash their hands before touching your vagina, vulva, or clit, says Kim Langdon, M.D., an ob-gyn at Parenting Pod in Valley Cottage, NY.

No matter what, follow the golden rule of anal: If it’s painful, stop. It’s that simple. “Anal sex should be pleasurable. It should never hurt,” says O’Reilly. “If penetration is painful, stop and go back to doing whatever turns you on.”

11. Don’t forget protection.

There’s a misconception there’s no reason to wear protection during anal sex, but that’s not the case, says Felice Gersh, M.D. an ob-gyn and founder of the Integrative Medical Group of Irvine in Irvine, CA. “There are still STIs to worry about.”

“If your partner wears a condom and uses it properly, the degree of protection is excellent for such diseases as gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV, hepatitis B and C, syphilis,” says Dr. Gersh. But because HPV, herpes lice, and crabs can be contacted through skin-to-skin (and pube-to-pube) contact, she and Dr. Langdon recommend wrapping it up *and* sharing STI-status with your partner.

12. Pick a side and only one side.

“Never ever should the penis or dildo travel from the rectum to the vagina,” says Dr. Gersh. “The rectum is highly contaminated with bacteria which can be transmitted to the vagina by the penis or dildo.” This, in turn, can cause a UTI, bacterial vaginosis, or other vaginal health issues. Um, no thanks.

The fix: Make sure your partner changes condoms before heading North. Wearing a condom protects your partner, too. “Having anal sex without a condom could lead to the male partner developing urinary tract infections as well,”

What is the real purpose of butt plugs with tails?

Butt plugs are very unique sex toys because they can be used by anyone regardless of sex, gender, and orientation. All you need is a prostate to stimulate it. It can be pleasurable to use a butt plug. After all, it can cause a lot of stimulation as there are sensitive nerve endings present even in the anal area. Moreover, butt plugs are the first step to explore new sexual territory for beginners. These are great for people who are into anal sex but want to take it a notch further and want to try new things on their bodies. But no matter what you like butt plugs there are different kinds of it available.

What to keep in mind while choosing a butt plug?

A butt plug should make you feel good, otherwise, there is no point in using it. It can make you feel good and loosen up your anus so that something can be put inside. But there are some things you should know before buying s butt plug:

  • Choose a flared base: This is a must or you can get that plug stuck in your anus. That won’t be a pleasant sensation for sure and you will most probably have a trip to the doctors as well. Along with this check if the toy is safe for your body. Sex toys don’t have any kind of federal body regulating what goes in to make it. So it’s up to you to choose carefully.
  • Start small: Don’t go for the big ones right away. You will have to make your butt hole really for that size slowly. Start by getting a butt plug that you are comfortable using. After that, slowly increase the size.

What you should keep in mind while getting butt plugs with tails?

Know that there are different kinds of butt plugs available and one of these is butt plugs with a tail. Once you put the plugin the body, all that can be seen protruding out is a swooshy or fluffy tail. No matter your reason for wearing a tail, you should keep in mind that:

  • Since it is something which is attached to a toy that goes in your butt so size matters here. If you are new to this then you should try out first and foremost with a little butt plug.
  • You need to have patience and take things slow because it will take sometime before you can wear your tail with ease.
  • If you have used anal toys, cocks and dildos then you should go for a size that isn’t intimidating to you.
  • Remember to use lube because you are going to need loads of it. The lube will help keep your tail in safely. Moreover, you need to be very careful while using the lube or you will get it on the trail as well. But remember that no matter what, more lube is always better for anal.

Types of butt plug Tails

This isn’t the whole list of all the different kinds of butt plugs available in the world but here are the kind of options you will get in regards to your tail:

  • Pony
  • Raccoon
  • Unicorn
  • Bunny
  • Wolf
  • Cat
  • Fox
  • Dog
  • Pig

Why pick butt plugs with tails?

Now, there is no one answer to this. After all, different people like different things and this varies more when it comes to kinks. So while choosing a butt plug with the tail you should focus on what you like and what makes you feel good and turns you right on. Along with this, you should also think about what you like and want to get out of this tail. Here are some things to consider:

  • If you want to explore a very specific kink then look for a tail that fits your description and wants. For example, if you are into pet play and are using pet titles like puppy, kitten, foxy or bunny then you can use a tail that corresponds to the name. But if you want to be a unicorn or pony then use furry and long tails. But if you want to be a bunny then a short tail will suffice. Of course, you don’t need to be into pet play to be into butt plugs with tails and vice versa.
  • If you want to feel the weight of the plug on your body then using butt plugs with tails is a great way to get that weight. More than that weight, when you want to feel something swishing behind you are you play or crawl then tails are great for that purpose as well. But if you want that swishing motion then don’t go for short tails, go for long and furry ones.
  • The tails also come in different colours. Apart from individual colours, you will be able to get butt plugs with tails in normal rainbow colours. So if you love colours and want to incorporate them into your kink then choosing a colourful but the plug will be a good idea.
  • If you simply want to enjoy anal play with a butt plug but with also want something slightly different than a plug with a tail is one thing which you can try out.

Things to keep in mind while buying plugs with tails

Everyone wants to pick out the perfect tail. While colour and other factors play very heavily into what you will like and not like, but there are other things which you should consider as well. This includes money and toxicity.

  • Look for deals and sales so that you get one which is cheap but perfect for you. It may take some searching if you want something really specific but rest assured it can be done and it can be found.
  • As for toxicity, your skin may feel allergic to some tails. So make sure you know what is in your tail and what it is made up of. If you are allergic to those substances then don’t use them.

Overall, whether you have a tail kink or simply want to see what it feels like to play with a swishing tail, butt plugs with tails can be a really fun thing that you can try. We have been fascinated by these tails available at lovegasm, and we think you would love them, too! We recommend giving them a visit!

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Who does not like a tingling foreplay with stimulating oils?

The range of sex toys is extensive, especially as the tastes vary from person to person. But most of us enjoy a seductive foreplay such as a stimulating massage all over our body. With oil for gentle touch, put you right in the right mood. There are oils in different scents; they immerse the room in an atmosphere full of feeling, sensuality and love. Fittingly, experts recommend the relaxing oil creations.

Love balls or dildos – Which sex toys of laces, are suitable for stimulating?

After the massage, Dorcel’s other toys can be used for pampering. A vibrating toy can stimulate her clitoris and stimulate the nerves in her genital area. And why should not she ever enjoy the climax before the actual game in bed? Love balls provide a significantly increased excitation curve; masturbators ensure that the partner is fueled. Of course, all of these toys are about Bijoux Indiscrete also for the love game alone. Couples should of course not neglect the look in the entire gimmick. The human, especially the man is a visual being. Delicate linen has already enchanted many a man.

How to extend the love game? Laced knows the answer!

The sex toys Dorcel and Co. accompany couples even with the nicest thing in the world in it. Completely playful with nipple clamps and springs, she lures him to bed, where she already expects him with condoms and gels from Fun Factory. It should be noted, however, that not every Fun Factory gel is suitable for every toy. Silicone lube, for example, should not be combined with other silicone products as it can damage these products. By contrast, the gels from Fun Factory on water basis already. With the cock rings she ensures that his excitement will last longer and the lovemaking lasts longer. The cock rings still have a vibrating attachment.

Love hurts – You want to discover the shades of gray and the pleasure of anal?

You are very quick-witted and now want to discover the Fifty Shades of Gray Toys in bed? Then surprise your partner with sexy lingerie made of latex or other wicked lingerie and our bondage accessories. Long before the fifty shades’ novel success, the game of domination, Bondage, was extremely popular in bed, No matter who wants to fix whom, with our toys the most beautiful thing in the world becomes a special and hot experience. With hard nipple clamps, the love game is also lifted to a whole new, intense level – in the spirit of Fifty Shades hero Christian Gray. Especially if anal toys are added to the pleasure toys, you are offering your partner a sex life in a class of their own because an orgasm of this kind is a very special pleasure. So take a look around the shop and pick the sex toys that suit you.

 

Such products are suitable for anyone who wants to experience more variety in bed. It does not matter if it’s women or men. Every gender can enjoy using it. Of course, it is important to decide on an article that is accepted by both partners. Due to the large selection of plugs this circumstance should not be a problem. Visit Loveplugs to know anal training.

4 Things You Didn’t Know About the Prostate

Let’s start with some generalities, to understand why prostatic massage can significantly enrich the orgasmic experience. The prostate is an exclusively male sexual organ, at least in its functions. Women also have a kind of prostate – the famous female G-spot – but whose functions are much less clearly established than in men. Let’s find out how to drain your prostate.

During the sexual act, the male prostate has four functions:

  • During the erection, it controls the bladder by blocking the urethra upstream (so that you do not want to urinate unexpectedly at this time);
  • It collects and stores mature spermatozoa that go back from the epidemics’ (pocket on each testicle) throughout the sexual arousal phase;
  • It stimulates the seminal vesicles that produce the seminal fluid – necessary for spermatozoa to move – and secretes “spermine” (or prostatic fluid). These three constituents (spermatozoa, seminal fluid and spermine) mix in the prostate and form the sperm;
  • It expels sperm into the urethra by contracting powerfully and repeatedly during orgasm, under the effect of the muscles of the perineum and lower abdomen: it is ejaculation.

All sex meridians join the prostate.

Beyond these physical functions, the prostate is the rallying point of all male sensual meridians, after they have gathered at the level of the sacrum. This explains the intense heat developed in this area during the whole phase of eroticization and excitement. It is for this reason that the prostate is often referred to as the “G-spot” of humans. This is also why her massage gives the sexual experience a deeper and more intense dimension, contributing to considerably improve the quality and beauty of orgasms.

It also focuses negative feelings during life

However, as a terminal sensual organ, the prostate also concentrates the negative sensual feelings we may have in our daily lives; those from stress, but also from unhealthy diet, cold, pollution, benign or serious diseases. In doing so, it contracts and hardens gradually over the course of life, which explains why we have more than difficulties at the age of forty, fifty or sixty to obtain ejaculations as strong and powerful as at the age of eighteen or twenty. The prostate can also be directly affected by conditions, which can be infectious or not: it is prostatitis.

If you suffer from one or more of the following symptoms, this may reveal prostatitis and require consultation with a doctor:

  • Pain in the rectum (often described as “a golf ball” in the rectum)
  • Supra-pubic pains (above the pubic bone)
  • Perinea pain (between the scrotum and the anus)
  • Pain in the penis
  • Pain around the coccyx
  • Pain in the lower back (one side or both)
  • Pain in the groin
  • Dysuria (pain in urination)
  • Frequent urination at night
  • High-frequency urination (more than once every two hours)
  • Emergency urination
  • Urine jet of reduced power
  • Incomplete urination sensation
  • Hesitation before or during urination (having to “push” as described above)
  • Pain or discomfort during or after ejaculation
  • Reduced libido (reduced interest in sex) due to fear of pain or discomfort.

In this case, the massage of the prostate is not recommended, unless it is practiced for a therapeutic purpose and exclusively by a confirmed urologist.

Prostate massage has been known for thousands of years

Tao masters recommended prostate massage to improve longevity and tone throughout the body’s aging cycle, which begins around the age of twenty. We will not have heard this claim during the Tantra-Tao gay massage. On the other hand, the massage of the prostate will allow its relaxation and its direct sensual stimulation. Thus, to the intense erotic energy that we have accumulated during the massage is added this stimulation of the most delicious, which will intensify very significantly the orgasm. This is the main reason why many men particularly like being penetrated during sexual intercourse which in no way determines homosexuality itself: The erect penis is indeed the best instrument available. To massage the prostate as long as you know how to do it.

The prostate is accessible only by anal penetration.

The prostate is located behind the base of the penis, above the perineum. At the front, it is protected by the pubic bone which covers it completely. His massage is done through the inside of the anus. If you are not used to anal introduction, this moment can be tricky; you can reflexively contract your anus and the entire anal bulb, while this sequence requires being more enjoyable total relaxation. A gentle and delicate preparation phase is therefore necessary for you to be perfectly comfortable. The breath and the caresses (of the fingers and why not of the language) are thus prerequisites perfectly adapted.

Of course, the massage of the prostate requires that the anal cavity is perfectly empty and clean, otherwise this sequence is bothersome and uncomfortable for me as for you!

Ideal sensual position for a prostate massage

The most suitable position for this massage is to get on all fours, buttocks bulging, knees bent, legs slightly apart, arms and bust resting flat on the bed. Thus, the anal area relaxes completely and the body undergoes no fatigue.

The prostate massage can also be practiced lying on the back, spreading and folding the legs, a pillow or a cousin under the buttocks. This position however requires that the masseur has more technicalities not to say fingering.

How I practice prostate massage

I begin with a sequence of gentle breath all along the anal line, gradually spreading your buttocks through caresses and kneading movements. These gestures will gradually relax completely the anal area that will open on its own. It is important to be totally relaxed and it will make sure that you are so before starting this massage.

When you feel that the anal area is well relaxed, then put the tip of your forefinger, previously coated with lubricating gel, at the edge of your anus. Gradually, it will enter alone, without any forcing.

 

The principle of prostate massage is not rubbing back and forth, but gently pressing the thin wall of skin between your rectum and your prostate by making small movements from the center of the prostate to its right and left ends. This is the opposite of therapeutic massage, which consists of pressing more strongly and starting from the ends to go towards the center, in order to drain and empty the prostate secretions. Visit https://loveplugs.co/ for more knowledge about prostate massage.

Best Metal and Steel Butt Plugs for Beginners in 2018

Nine out of ten women may experience climax through anal intercourse along with clitoral stimulation. Most women, however, want to try the anal stimulation and test their own limits before taking the step to anal sex with the partner. For the sexually exciting form of anal stimulation, anal plugs are ideal. For this reason, women with an anal plug can gain their first anal experience. Also for the prelude to the final sexual act, the sex toy is excellent. Because after the anus is slightly widened, the male penis can easily penetrate the woman. Nothing stands in the way of sexual pleasure.

In addition, the anal plug can also be used in men. After all, there are a number of nerve endings on the anus that are just waiting to be stimulated. Who wants to try for the time together and new sexual experience anal plug, should make sure that the product meets the highest standards because with the best plugs unique sexual experiences are not far away.

An anal plug is a sex toy that is a type of small dildo that is introduced anal. The special shape of this sex toy ensures that the anal plug, also called anal plug or butt plug, can remain in the anus during sexual intercourse or foreplay, thus ensuring a continuous sexual stimulation. On the sex toy market, there is a sheer vast array of anal plugs, some of them conventional, some with additional features like a built-in vibrator. For this reason, the following product test should ensure that you find the right butt plug, which henceforth ensures exuberant fun in the bedroom.

What are anal plugs?

Anal plugs are sex toys that are a kind of little dildo. These are suitable for anal stimulation and satisfaction. Depending on individual needs and experience, there are the toys in different sizes. Interested people should make sure that they get a high-quality plug that meets their own needs.

 

Which test scales have we used in our big anal plug test 2018?

When testing the metal and steel butt plugs, there were several criteria on which the final test result is based. In test, the wearing comfort of the anal plugs played a big role. After all, the success of sexual stimulation stands and falls with the comfort of wearing. In addition, criteria such as cleaning, the material or the design were decisive points for the final ranking in the ranking. Additional points have been awarded in the case of anal plug sets, which include, for example, a storage box or the like, in order to stow the anal plug hygienically and comfortably after use.

Wearing comfort: The wearing comfort is the alpha and omega of an anal plug because this remains stuck for a long time in the aftermath of a person. Sexual desire can only arise if it feels comfortable. For this reason, the wearing comfort of an anal stopper was the crucial aspect in the evaluation of the various sex toys.

Material: Anal plugs are inserted into a body opening, more specifically in the anus. For this reason, it is important that the material of an anal plug is natural and of high quality. Therefore, anal plugs made of medical grade silicone or similar materials are rated better than other artificial and unhealthy anal plugs. The environmental compatibility of the material also played a role in the test.

Design: For the majority of users, the design of a sex toy certainly does not play the decisive role. Nonetheless, the design was also included in the evaluation because an appealing and high-quality design is a nice extra no more, but not less.

Cleaning: After use, the butt plug should be thoroughly cleaned. When cleaning is fast, thorough and easy, the sex toy is rated better than other products. Another point is the result of the cleaning. Odors and other abnormalities should not be left behind.

Extras: Certain extras such as a storage box or a stand can positively influence the rating. For this reason, our product results also included such product extras.

Expert Recommendations: The Deluxe Silicone Butt Plug Set convinces all over and is the winner of our anal plug test because the set offers various anal plug sizes, all of which were made in impressive quality. The 100% medical silicone is free of harmful substances, so that the sex toys can be introduced without hesitation. Certain extras such as a storage bag, lubricant and the ergonomic base round off the offer more than successful.

The different anal plugs

The Deluxe Silicone Butt Plug Set consists of three different plugs in different sizes. The smallest plug is aimed at beginners and has a total length of eight centimeters. The diameter ranges from 15-28 mm and the weight is 40 grams. The amateur plug is aimed at advanced users and has a total length of 12 centimeters. The diameter of this anal plug is 20-40 mm and the sex toy weighs 100 grams. The biggest variant is the professional anal plug in this set. This is 14 cm long and has a diameter of 24-45 mm and a weight of 154 grams. Love plugs provides a collection of anal plugs.

The advantages – material, handling, cleaning and much more

The anal plugs are all made of high quality material – 100% medical silicone. This innovative silicone is soft and free from all harmful substances. In addition, the manufacturers have paid attention to an innovative design, so that the butt plug easily and without problems in the anus can be introduced. There, the anal plug sits securely and firmly and ensures sexual arousal. Also, the ergonomic base of the butt plug does not interfere with insertion and carrying.

In addition, the cleaning is easily possible with the Deluxe Silicone Butt Plug Set. There is also a lubricant in the large set and a luxury velvet storage bag. These extras are included. In the bag, the anal plugs can be stowed when not in use.

Already for 25.99 dollars there is the butt plug set including three anal plugs in different sizes, a pack of lubricant and the luxurious storage bag. After that, nothing stands in the way of the maximum fun that the manufacturer advertises because the black plugs in three sizes have a high wearing comfort and stand for sexual excitement.

The applications of the butt plug

Due to the three different sizes, there is the right plug for every user, man or woman. To find out which butt plug provides optimal sexual stimulation, users should start with the smallest. Then it is possible to increase the use of the anal plugs in terms of size, so that high fun is certain. The anatomical shape of the medical silicone adapts perfectly to the anus. Thus, the plug stuck after the introduction in the anal. The plugs are also particularly suitable for when the anus during vaginal intercourse is also stimulated over a long period of time.

Why You Should Perform a Health Check Before Anal Sex

Anal chains are among the sex toys that promise unique emotional development. An anal chain consists of nothing but balls that are connected to each other. They are similar to the well-known Rin-no-tama, which are actually introduced vaginally and should strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. However, anal chains are longer than Rin-no-tama. It can surprise you that butt plugs and constipation is also interred related.

Depending on the model, the balls of an anal chain have the same size, or even larger balls. Anchor chains are designed so that the connected balls can be successively inserted into the anal anus. The tradition of love balls connected together in a chain has been known for several centuries.

What to consider when buying an anal chain

Anal chains can be made of different materials. It is particularly pleasant when silicone was used for the preparation.  is easy to clean and disinfect. It is therefore very important to pay attention to the hygienic possibilities when buying. If the balls of an anal chain are connected to a fabric band, it could be difficult to clean, as it may not be easy to wash any remains of stool out of them. Anal chain are offered in different lengths in the trade. One should therefore pay attention to the following quality features when buying an anal chain:

  • Pleasant material
  • Perfect workmanship, no sharp edges
  • Easy to clean and disinfect
  • The size of the balls should be appropriate

The tail of the anal chain should be designed so large that it cannot disappear by itself in the rectum. There are also fancy butt plugs like fox tails in your butt that’s designed for the fetish and bdsm role playing.

How and when are analgesics used?

Anal chains are equally used by lovers of both sexes. For many it means indescribable sexual stimulation when one pearl after another is inserted and pulled out anally. You should take your time with this type of sexual stimulation because, depending on the model and design, the sphincter muscle should slowly expand by the insertion of the balls. This experience is particularly noticeable in the analgesics, which consist of ever-larger balls. Anal chain can, if necessary, with a little slip cream, lubricant or oil, be made lubricious. This makes it easier to introduce anal and pain can be prevented. After use, the anal chain should be cleaned directly, so that any dirt cannot dry.

Which usage variants are there?

Anal chains can be used alone, but better still for two. Some people like it when only one ball of the anal chain is inserted into the anus, while others, when very slowly, pass one ball after another through the sphincter until the entire anal chain is inserted. Many users reach a sexual climax when it is then, very slowly, ball by ball, pulled out of the rectum again. The sensation of pulling out is particularly intense when performed during the sexual climax. An anal chain is ideally suited to prepare the love partner for anal intercourse variants.

This preparation and sphincter stretching can be done slowly and carefully. The use of an anal chain not only serves to stretch the sphincter, but also to relax. Anal sex is only possible with many lovers when body and mind are totally relaxed. Those who are cramped will also automatically contract the sphincter and the anal penetration may be uncomfortable, in some cases even impossible.

Different model variants

Anal chains are available through the specialist retailers in the field of sex toys. There are a variety of model variants available. Anal chain can differ in color and form very much. They are available in silver, black, and all kinds of other color options.

Anal chain can additionally be provided with a vibration mechanism. Fans of the anal beads, which are connected to a chain, are usually not content with a model variant, but create themselves over time a whole repertoire. When buying an anal chain, the appropriate cleaning agent should always be bought immediately. The balls of an anal chain can be shaped differently. Most are round, like small balls, others are elliptical or oval.

Available in 4 sizes is the anal plug, which features a rotating inner ball. The plugs are odorless and the outer shell is made of silky smooth silicone. The black plug is – depending on the size – ideal for anal beginners to professionals. Surprising and interesting is his inner life. A metal ball rotates and is also noticeable while wearing, as soon as you move. This provides interesting stimulation.

Due to the slim base, even the largest butt plug “sits” well and it can stay in the body for a longer time, without it interfering. The foot is slightly oval shaped. So he sits comfortably without disturbing. And do not worry; the foot is so big that the plug cannot completely disappear in the butt. Incidentally, the foot is designed as a squeegee, so you can “anchor” the plug on a smooth surface such as the bottom of the bathtub to play with it on the spot. Due to the side-mounted, small, super-soft handle, it can be easily removed from the ground again.

The base of the plug is flexible but not wobbly. As a result, the plug adapts to the body, yet can be easily inserted and easily removed. The plugs are flexible, odorless; they have no pores and feel pleasantly soft.

The medical silicone is hypoallergenic and easy to clean.

An anal chain is perfect for you if you do not have any experience with anal stimulation but would like to try it out. There are also anal chains for the seasoned, as there are many different sizes of ankle chains – both in the length and size of the balls – and different numbers of balls and different materials. Check out our guide: Choose the right anal chain if you are not sure which anal chain is right for you. If you already have experience with anal stimulation, it may be a good idea to try it out when you are alone, then you will not have pressure from your partner and you will be able to set your own pace.

So do it

Start by lubricating the anal chain with a good anal lubricant and around the anus as well. Use one hand to spread your buttocks and the other to insert the anal chain.

 

It is not certain that you can insert all the balls the first time, but it’s okay. The most important thing is that it feels comfortable to you. The more often you use the analgesic, the more you get in. If you want to push the chain out and in or just have it in while masturbating or having sex – when you’re with your partner – it’s all a matter of taste. You have to try out what you want, which is exciting for you.

Tips on How to Enjoy Anal Sex with Your Partner

You want something fancy but don’t know how to introduce idea of anal play to your partner? Anal sex provides both women and men equally stimulating feelings and provides in most cases for even more intense orgasms. The region around the anus has many nerve endings, which can cause intense stimulation when touched. You do not know if you like it yet? Then find out.

 

The first time anal sex

Anyone can enjoy anal sex either as an active or passive partner, or both, regardless of sex. This applies to heterosexual as well as lesbian and gay couples. The most important thing in anal sex is to take your time. This is especially true when it is the first time. Talk to your partner beforehand about the topic and what your ideas look like. Is the anal sex for you both in question? Maybe one of you already has some experience? The entire is better! Speak in plain language and thus create all the uncertainties in the world.

In no case do you withhold your concerns and fears. A relaxed approach to the matter makes the anal sex at the end a lot more relaxed. There is hardly a sexual practice that is as charged as anal intercourse in the beginning it therefore makes sense to deal with the few myths that exist around the subject. The most common and untruths we have put together in the following and compared with the reality.

Myths about anal sex: We have to talk!

There are so many prejudices, rumors and half-truths about anal sex and you’ve probably heard one or the other “horror story” – from unpleasant odors to medical emergencies. We clean up with nonsensical myths about anal intercourse and explain how it really is.

  1. Anal sex hurts

Truth: Anal sex only hurts if you take it ruthlessly and unprepared. If you’re in the right mood, relaxed, with a finger or an anal toy carefully pretends and uses enough lubricant, it will not hurt, but good. Attention: Spit is not a lubricant!

  1. Anal sex is dirty

In the rectum, feces are only just before the stool. If you do not feel like you need to go to the bathroom, anal sex is hygienically safe. A shower before anal intercourse is advisable and who really wants to go safe, can make a colon cleansing with an anal shower. But it can always happen that despite cleaning feces during anal sex is here. If you notice that, take the time to cleanse yourself again or go on another sex practice this time. Important: Intestinal bacteria can cause vaginal infections. Please never switch from anal intercourse directly to vaginal intercourse!

  1. Condoms are not necessary

Truth: Contraceptive use is important! Although the risk of unwanted pregnancies during anal intercourse is much lower, the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease such as HIV is even greater due to the faster development of micro-cracks.

  1. The anus is crying out

Truth: The sphincter is a very strong muscle of our body. Although he gets used to regular anal intercourse more easily to the pressure, the strain and can relax faster, “leach” and his function he will not lose – except injuries. Incidentally, this also applies to the vagina.

  1. Anal sex is only for gays

One of the great advantages of having anal sex is that people of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gays. Of hetero-men anal sex is still often associated with the fact that the man takes over the role of the woman who is otherwise penetrated anal or just the role of a gay man. As a result, men are also at risk of being labeled gay or feminine and no longer considered a “real man”. But gays were not born with special nerves designed for anal play.

Each man has the same nerve tracts on the anus and a prostate, which can be stimulated by anal penetration. There are many heterosexual men who have discovered the pleasure of anal stimulation, and there are many gay men who have tried it and decided that it is not for them. It’s a matter of taste and not a question of gender and sexual orientation that should keep someone from enjoying anal sex.

  1. Women do not like anal sex

Social norms and expectations are constantly changing and developing. Sexual stigma and what we perceive as an acceptable and healthy part of our intimacy are things that can fortunately be rewritten. The assumption is that women do not like anal sex and only do it because men like it from them and they want to fulfill this “fantasy”. What is problematic about this view? This sexual fabric sees men in the dominant role forcing women into activities in the bedroom. The idea that women do not enjoy anal sex discourages and denies them sexual ability to act as well as sexual desires such as anal sex. Of course, this can also be perceived by women as stimulating and sexy and has nothing to do with the above-mentioned submission.

Fortunately, the actual picture of what people do in their bedroom differs from this general narrative. It may not be talked about so openly in society, but anal sex is part of a common sex practice that both partners enjoy. No one has to feel compelled to do so. If you feel like it, do it – if not, then not. Anal sex may also be an alternative to vaginal sex, which may not be possible and unpleasant during the period or during a fungal infection. Whether she or he finds anal sex good, each person has to find out for themselves.

  1. There is an anal orgasms

There is no pure anal orgasm. But since the anus and sexual organs are close together, you can almost get a second hand orgasm by stimulating the sensitive nerve endings on the anus and the genitals at the same time. Many perceive this stimulation as an anal orgasm. Every human being has numerous nerve endings on the anus that can be stimulated by touch, which many people find tingling and, together with masturbation or vaginal penetration, intensifies orgasm. In addition, there are gender-specific features that influence an “anal orgasm”.

  1. Anal orgasm in men:

The prostate is the size of a chestnut and lies inside the anus on the intestinal wall behind the penis and testicles. It is a gland that secretes a secretion that mixes with the sperm during ejaculation to make it more flexible. The small bump can also trigger intense feelings in men. Five to seven inches in the anus can feel a round bead. With the fingertip you can massage them – with light pressure and circular movements. The best way to do this is the middle finger, as it can penetrate the deepest into the anus. If penis and glands are additionally stimulated, an “anal orgasm” is quite realistic. Feeling orgasm with anal penetration is often described by men as more intense and different. For more information about the prostate massage, you can visit this helpful site to learn more about it.

The anal orgasm in the woman:  women do not have a prostate, so this cannot be stimulated in anal sex. But you have the clitoris. This not only includes the externally visible clitoris, but also the internal tickle thigh and the vaginal opening, which have many nerve endings. There are also muscles in the anus associated with this area. Thus, stimulation can be transmitted to the whole region by anal stimulation, i.e. the clitoris is indirectly stimulated. If you indulge additionally clitoris or the vagina, the “anal orgasm” is even easier for them.

How to Properly Clean and Store Your Butt Plugs

Anal plug (born. Butt plug), also known as butt plug, is a specific form of sex toy that is inserted into the anus. In their design, they look like a cone on the leg, i.e. wide at the base, and narrow at the end. The main objective of such a toy is to stimulate nerve endings that are deep in the anus.

 

Using the anal plug is an excellent prelude before anal sex, and you can also enjoy it during masturbation. With the help of her, both men and women will be able to experience the pleasure of having sex, like an explosion of dynamite. In addition to all this, men can use them to massage the prostate.

How to use the anal plug

Remember the golden rule in anal sex – the use of a lubricant. Additional lubricant will create a better slip, which will facilitate the introduction of the plug into the anus. So can you boil a silicone butt plug? The answers are there now.

Choose a comfortable position for yourself:

  • Standing on all fours (Doggy Style)
  • Posture, lying on his back, legs apart and a small pillow under his back
  • Pose, squatting

In order to comply with basic hygiene standards, you should always put a condom on the cork before inserting it into the anus. And before each use, you must ensure that the sex toys are clean.

It must be introduced slowly, trying to use the minimum force. If the first time does not work, then you need to relax or do some breathing exercises and try to introduce the plug again.

When it is inserted a few centimeters inwards, relax the muscles (sphincter) and let it slip out of the anus itself. Repeat this several times, constantly inserting the cork deeper and deeper so that the body is accustomed to a foreign body.

Quite popular are becoming vibrating butt plugs, the vibration of which can be adjusted using the remote. This plug must be inserted slowly and with a slight vibration.

Also, in addition to anal vibrio plugs, there are also inflatable plugs made of elastic latex, which are gradually becoming popular among connoisseurs of experiments in sex. They must first be introduced into the anus in an unsettled state (these plugs are 3-4 cm in diameter), and then inflated with a hand pump (the diameter can double in the inflated state).

How to choose a butt plug

With regard to the choice of sex toys, then there may be some problems if a person is new to this area, since their range is huge. But in any case, there are three most important points that you need to pay attention to when buying:

  • The size
  • The form
  • Material

Their sizes are very different, for example, they can be from 2-5 cm in diameter. Beginners are advised not to experiment with the size – for the first time it is advisable to choose a plug, the diameter of which is similar to the thickness of one to two fingers.

The choice of form depends on the purpose of its use, for example, if a man wants to massage the prostate with it, then it will be necessary to choose a special curved plug for this.

Mostly, sex toys are made from silicone, rubber, metal, or even wood. As a rule, each material has both advantages and disadvantages. Despite the variety of sex toys, anal plugs made of soft material are more popular than solid ones, since the risk of injury is reduced to a minimum.

Butt plug: reviews, types, features of use and effectiveness

The range of sex toys usually causes awkwardness and is practically not discussed. Potential buyers have to rely on advertising and fragmentary information. However, even such a delicate sphere of human life as sex requires awareness. This allows you to avoid unnecessary risk and reveal your sensual potential. One of the most popular toys of a sexual nature is butt plug. User feedback on this particular subject is different, but mostly benevolent. Let us consider the question in more detail, because even in a very delicate area of ??life, truthful and objective information is needed.

Modern shops for adults are distinguished by the fact that they are ready to offer all those who seek to diversify their sex life, those toys that will definitely do this by realizing their wishes and ideas. For example, such a toy, as anal plugs, is very popular, wanting to choose and buy it, it is worth exploring this issue in detail, learning about all the most important criteria.

Criteria for selection of anal plugs. What you need to know? Valuable tips

Of course, first of all, you need to visit specialized and reputable stores for adults, which will differ in an impeccable reputation, as well as numerous positive reviews, which will lead to the purchase of high-quality, safe toys, and this is the most important thing to consider. Be sure to read the reviews that will help you understand whether to use the services of this store or not.

If you are a beginner, you can choose a cone anal plug; its length can be up to twelve centimeters. Such a toy should have a reliable and convenient basis, since it is an equally important criterion and factor that should be strictly followed when buying.

In the event that more experienced users select a toy of this type for themselves, then it is advisable to choose such options that can enhance the feelings of partners, and doing so with classic sex. I would also like to add that not only women can use the anal plug, but also men and this is true. Moreover, the man uses the cork as a toy and as a medical massager, thereby massaging the prostate, preventing many diseases, increasing potency.

Beginners who want to try anal sex should first take advantage of certain types of sex toys that will prepare the anus for a phallus or penis. Those who wish to buy anal toys should follow certain types of advice.

It is worth saying that some users try to have beautiful toys for sex games that would stimulate the sexual activity of a partner. One of these toys is butt plug which can be made from materials such as silicone, glass, cyber leather, metal, and others.

To raise the sexual tone in a relationship, some partners acquire butt plugs with various types of tails, which are popularly called piquant things. Online seller of tail plugs, loveplugs.com.au, is one of the go to sex shop if you’re looking for popular tail plugs like animal tails and etc. Others acquire toys decorated with various types of rhinestones and stones. When using such types of products for the first time, it is worth choosing a small cork size, which will be no more than 1 cm in diameter. Most of the toys should be at the beginning without curvature, so that the client does not cause certain types of damage to the anus. It is also necessary to use certain types of lubricants and lubricants together with such types of products as butt plug. Before using, you need to know what types of lubricants are used for various types of traffic jams, so you should get advice on the shop portal from professionals who sell these types of products.

  • Before you acquire a particular model, it is necessary to study its characteristics in detail. Customers can buy quality butt plugs on the Sex-shop hypermarket portal. It is here that the best types of products in this area are presented. Before buying, it is necessary to clarify how tight the cork is, as more rigid materials are perfect for permanent use.
  • If the client is going to carry the toy with him all day, then in this case it is better to use products that bend beautifully.

As experts advise, when using this type of toy, you definitely need to relax so as not to get pain and discomfort, so those who use butt plugs should inform their partner about their feelings so as not to harm the body. Also, users of anal plugs must constantly care for them and keep them completely clean.

What are the Best Things to Do When Using Anal Beads

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Instructions to utilize anal pearls

Anal dabs are a progression of hard plastic or delicate elastic dots that are either connected to one another by a string or shaped as one piece. Here and there the dabs are distinctive in size, begin little and get greater as you go up. In some cases they are all a similar size.

Like most sex toys, anal globules don’t accompany instructions. Since they are proposed for anal use, for a few people they may accompany a larger number of questions and concerns than sex toys expected for outside or vaginal utilize cause it can also be used in kegel exercise as the size and feature of the toy implies. Learning is control, so before you grab these dots, read on.

A portion of the anal dabs consist of an options of the hard plastic balls hitched on a nylon rope. These pearls are of the most reduced quality and are not suggested. The string is hard to clean perfect (which implies you should dependably put a condom over the globules, which may change the vibe of the dabs).

Grease required

Apply a liberal measure of grease to the dabs (make certain to apply every one of the dabs, not simply the ones on the best). With your fingers, you can likewise apply some ointment outwardly and specifically into the rear end.

Thicker lubricants are less demanding to use with anal dots as they don’t slip off the toy quickly. You will presumably need to recharge the oil sooner or later.

Check the item

Before you utilize your anal dabs out of the blue, expel them from the bundling, wash them well and after that check them precisely. Focus on creases, splits or sharp edges. In case your anal dabs are made of plastic, you can utilize an Emory board to record every one of the join to make them smooth. In case you’re anal dabs are made of a non-permeable material, search for missing gaps or missing parts from the material. In case there are any oversights, restore your anal dots previously utilizing them.

Begin on your own

Regardless of whether you need your partner to take the anal dabs with you, it’s a smart thought to attempt them yourself the first run through.

You will feel less hesitant and/or can truly center on what it feels like for you without being occupied by a partner (for better or in negative ways). Ensure you have a brief period and enough protection before you get the opportunity to work.

Apply first

Prior to attempting to utilize your anal globules out of the blue, you ought to do whatever you typically would. In case you feel unbalanced or occupied, it can make it harder to infiltrate, being so loose and fomented can make your first time run easily with anal globules.

How they function

The insertion of anal dabs does not make exceptional joy, and when you convey them inside, you normally don’t feel better or awful. The essential necessity behind anal pearls is that as you haul them out, you will feel various pleasing sensations.

It tends to be well-thoroughly considered as being like another muscle rubbed, despite the fact that these are muscles that are not kneaded frequently. Much the same as a normal back rub, a few people will truly appreciate that inclination and others won’t care for it by any stretch of the imagination.

Begin gradually

Once you feel loose and prepared to utilize the dots, and you have a lot of grease on the globules, gradually begin embeddings them one at any given moment. Notice how that feels, and in case you encounter agony or uneasiness, back off, include more grease, or stop. Once every one of the dots is set up, you can do different things and invigorate yourself in different ways. When you’re done, gradually haul out the dabs. You might need to do this quicker or slower, yet the first run through, go gradually and wonderfully. Notice the inclination as each pearl keeps running over the sphincters.

Things to know before you buy your vibrator

You want to know what the best vibrators are for you. Vibrators are designed for and by women, for the moments when there is no man around. If there is a man in the neighborhood, the vibrator may stay in the bedside table. That is how you can think. I’m going to show you now that there’s another way to watch vibrators, dildos and other sex toys in a way that you can take advantage of it.

Not every woman likes vibrators, just as not every woman loves coffee. But many women do. The reason for many women is the vibratory function, which can cause an enormously intense clitoral pressure.

Benefits of a vibrator in bed

To begin with: sometimes it’s just easy. Certain women are insatiable, it seems. Or you are devastated by work, too much sex or for whatever reason. You have just had sex and you have already come. Your girlfriend or sexual partner has not yet reached its peak and is staring at your sip with a hopeful look or something will happen. You give her a broad smile and reach for the bedside table. Time for vibrator fun!

The vibrator is now also your best friend. Of course you want the vibrator to be clean, from previous times. The most important thing is that you show that you are completely comfortable with the use of your vibrator. If the vibrator is in your bedside table then you also immediately show that you are comfortable with it: you do not see the sex toys as competitors because for a guy like you there is no competition! That is the attitude you want to radiate.

This way you spoil her with a vibrator

 

The most important tip is not to see the vibrator as a drill. Think of it as a precision instrument. You are not a construction worker, but an artist, who wants to use his brush with exactly the right pressure and in the right places. Do not switch on the pleasure toy immediately, but move it slowly between her labia so that she can get used to the temperature first.

See the vibrator as an addition rather than replacement of the foreplay. You still want to finger her, touching and so on to take her step by step. Pay attention to the vibrator when you take it out of her pussy or it is really good wet. Only when that is the case you want to turn on the vibrator. Most vibrators have different positions and you want to start with a low setting. See how she responds to the stimulation.

This is how an elite lover goes about with a vibrator

Is she hornier than the vibrator to take as much area of ??her vagina as possible? Extend it to her outer labia, her clitoris and the inner walls of her vagina. Remember that it only adds to the total experience when you enjoy it in as many ways as possible. By occasionally licking and massaging her she will be able to sink deeper and deeper into the pleasure.

If that happens, enter the tempo and try different positions. Test different movements: pivoting, pumping, and discover which spots are the most sensitive. If you find yourself finding a sweet spot and she slowly climbs to her peak, make sure that there is less and less variation some variation is still greatly appreciated in the process and increasingly for constant movements.

Thankful look

Never be too heavy-handed or too rough. Use policy, as a true love artist, to guide her to its peak. You can imagine how she will see you when you can assist her in her most intimate games. Do not make the mistake of thinking that you can read her thoughts. Occasionally ask a question about the tempo, pressure and place where you use the vibrator.

Exchange horny porn with sweet talk and you push her in no time over the edge to an orgasm that promotes you to the premier league of the elite lovers. Behold her shocking body and the grateful look in her eyes. That is your work, the artwork of an elite lover and an artist.

Using a vibrator for the first time is exciting.

If you do not know what you are doing, it can even be unpleasant. Fortunately, it is easier than you think to get yourself ready with a vibrator, if you know what the right technique is.In this article you get a ready-made manual to pamper yourself with your new vibrator.

Not many women take the lead in taking back control of their own orgasm. You are so tough to find out how you can spoil yourself, because you are a strong and independent woman. So you already have that in the pocket.

 

If this is your first time with a vibrator, there are a number of things you need to know. It is not that the world perishes if you do it wrong. But it is much better if you know exactly how to play all sensitive parts of your body in the right way. There are some secret tips, which help you to find the right vibrator and get even more out of it.

If you have never used one before, you can become overwhelmed if you look at all the different models. There are thousands, so how do you make the right choice?

If you are using one for the first time, experts advise you to choose a simple vibrator in a not too large version. No bends, ridges, external clitoral stimulation or other frills.

95% of the techniques experts give you below are fine to do with such a cheap copy. You do not need the exotic options for a long time yet.And it is better that you first learn to use a vibrator by discovering what you like, than spending 100 dollars on a luxury model with all kinds of bells and whistles.

What can you do to get in the mood?

Here are some suggestions, choose what is applicable:

It is not recommended but using chastity device prior to getting yourself in to the mood and do your alone thing might be a good thing. Cause the device will force you to not to engage in sexual activities therefore increases the volume of your semen and the increases your sexual desire exponentially.

Make sure you are not disturbed. Wait until your roommates are gone, or lock your room door and close the curtains.

Make your bedroom sexy. Dim the lights put on an exciting tune and pull on an outfit where you feel attractive but being naked is also allowed. Watch porn. Here you will find my favorite porn movies for women and couples. Drink a nice glass of wine. Alcohol makes sure you can relax. Note: keep it with one. Take a warm bath and a face mask beforehand.